Super kids are grown by super moms
“Mother” a simple word but everything in our life. Mother is thechild's first friend, first companion, first teacher. And she is also the baby’s first inspiration. When a baby is...
“Mother” a simple word but everything in our life. Mother is the
child's first friend, first companion, first teacher. And she is also the baby’s first inspiration. When a baby is born, a mother is also born. When a baby takes birth the biggest question that comes to a mother's mind is, she will be a good mother or not. Many mothers are confused that they are not a good mother. Only because they don’t have enough time for babies, or they scream at them sometimes. But these should be the parameters for being a good mother.
I conceived four years back. And that time I was worried about how my child will be and will I be able to grow my child well. when I give birth then the criteria of overthinking get changed and I started thinking will I be able to raise my child well or will be able to feed my baby. While baby grows up mothers start thinking beyond the boundaries. Children and parents are on the same track and
with time they cross all the hurdles.
We all say, “Mom Knows Everything”. But is it really true or time teaches her to know everything? When a woman became a mother, she decides to be a better version for her kids. And she tries to learn everything. But is it really necessary? Is it important that the mother should know everything?
The relationship between child and mother should be like a friend. Baby should never think twice before sharing the emotions with her. And this is what matters. A child should see a friend in mother to whom they can share everything. kids and mom both should not hide anything from each other. If you are going through a difficult phase, then you should share this with your child. It makes kids understand that difficulties are also a part of their lives. Make them understand that happiness and difficulties both are the corners of life rope. But together we can overcome any situation.
If mothers know everything it doesn't make a mom a super mom. What really makes a super mom is growing a boy or girl child equally. Without discriminating the responsibilities. There should not be a division of any work. Boys should also do household work and girls should go out and bring stuff for daily needs. Prepare your child mentally and physically to stand strong and equally in this society. Girls should learn to value themselves and make your boys learn the value of a girl. This is what matters. This is what makes you a “SUPER MOM”.
If a child does anything wrong, then you have full right to scream and when they are right then just flow the unconditional love. Don’t think that how a child will react to it. Your way of showing love or anger doesn’t define you. What defines is the messages you are giving to your child. And this is how
“SUPER KIDS ARE RAISED BY SUPER MOMS”
About the author:
I’m Shreya Goel. I am mother of 6 year old. I embarked myself on a journey to share my experiences of being a mother. I am proud of many thinks in life but nothing beats being a mother
