Why a Nursing Bra Might Be More Loyal Than an Alarm Clock for New Moms?
Let’s be honest—new moms don’t really need alarm clocks. Our babies’ hunger cries are sharper than any snooze button. But while the alarm clock rings and leaves you to deal...
Let’s be honest—new moms don’t really need alarm clocks. Our babies’ hunger cries are sharper than any snooze button. But while the alarm clock rings and leaves you to deal...
Let’s be honest—new moms don’t really need alarm clocks. Our babies’ hunger cries are sharper than any snooze button. But while the alarm clock rings and leaves you to deal with the ‘cute’ chaos of motherhood, your nursing bra is right there with you through every night feed, leak, and 3 a.m. cuddle. Reliable? Yes. Comfortable? Absolutely (if you choose the right one). Loyal? More than your alarm clock will ever be.
Did you know? Nearly 80% of women wear the wrong bra size during pregnancy or postpartum, which can affect posture, comfort, and even milk flow. |
Pro Tip: Measure your bust every 6–8 weeks postpartum. Your breast size may fluctuate as your feeding frequency changes. As your milk supply stabilizes, your size will too — and your back will thank you!
A few months back, I was sitting in the office canteen with Priya and Sanjana (fellow moms), when Prisha (another new mom) joined us, smiled, pointed to her dark circles, and said, “Want to hear a one-word joke? Sleep!” We all laughed—not because it was funny, but because it was painfully true.
We swap new mom jokes like currency, like “Sleeping eight hours straight? Sure, over four days.” “Feeling like a ‘pump’kin? That’s because pumping is life.”
Fun fact for supermoms— Laughter literally lowers cortisol — the stress hormone — and boosts oxytocin, your natural bonding hormone. So those “mom jokes” are actually mini therapy sessions!
Smart mom strategy: Keep a group chat of mom friends for midnight giggles — it’s your best stress-busting, hormone-balancing hack.
Nighttime with a newborn is a mix of diaper changes, on-demand feeding, burping, and whispering please, please go back to sleep into tiny ears. Sure, waking up every few hours may not be glamorous (whoever coined “beauty sleep” clearly wasn’t a mom), but those midnight feeds have some amazing benefits.
What if I told you that night feeds are less about losing sleep, more about gaining hormones that heal? Did you know that losing sleep at night can renew your body’s chemistry and help you bond with your baby more effectively? Meanwhile, your little one’s tummy stays full and happy! Surprised? Read on to find out how.
Mother Nature’s Secret— Prolactin, the milk-making hormone, peaks between 2–5 a.m., which means your body is literally designed for night feeds!
Mom hack for the night: Instead of fighting night feeds, embrace them. Feed in a dim, calm space to align your body’s hormone rhythm with your baby’s feeding cues. |
Your breast milk actually works around the clock just like you do. Morning milk is like a baby’s protein-packed smoothie—boosting growth and keeping your baby bright-eyed. As the day wears on, the fat content rises, and by evening, your milk transforms into a creamy, sleep-inducing latte, helping your baby feel full and (hopefully) stay asleep longer.
Even science is on your side: morning milk has more cortisol, the “wake-up hormone,” while night milk is rich in melatonin, the “sleepy hormone”. Melatonin helps your baby relax, regulate their sleep-wake rhythm, and drift back to dreamland faster. In short, your body runs a 24/7 baby café with a menu that changes to suit your baby’s body clock. Awesome, right?
Tiny truth bomb: Human milk composition changes throughout the day — morning milk contains higher cortisol to wake your baby up, while evening milk is loaded with melatonin and tryptophan to help them snooze.
Quick tip before your next feed: Try to feed your baby expressed milk at the same time it was pumped (morning milk in the morning, night milk at night) to support their body clock naturally. |
And there’s more—at night, your body produces higher levels of prolactin (the milk-making hormone), which means those feeds help keep your supply steady, even boosting it. Think of it as topping up your ‘liquid gold’.
For you, those quiet feeds release oxytocin—the “love hormone”—which not only helps with milk let-down but also reduces stress, supports recovery, and makes it easier to fall back asleep yourself. So, those sleepy snuggles at 2 a.m. and 4 a.m. may feel exhausting, but they’re powerful moments of closeness that foster security and attachment.
So yes, 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep might be a myth for now—but 8 feeds? That’s real life, and they’re doing wonders for both of you.
Here’s a little science sprinkle— Skin-to-skin contact during breastfeeding boosts oxytocin release in both mother and baby — reducing stress, regulating temperature, enhancing milk let-down, and improving sleep quality for your baby and you.
From one mom to another—try this: Keep your baby close during those midnight feeds. A few extra minutes of skin contact can calm crying faster than any lullaby and help both of you fall asleep faster afterward. |
Here’s a little secret to help you mommies get some sleep: pump and store! When you pump, your partner can take over one or two nighttime feeds, giving you a few precious hours of uninterrupted sleep—without compromising your baby’s nutrition. Your little one still gets all the immune-boosting, growth-promoting, mood-calming goodness of breast milk, while you recharge enough to function like a human again. It’s a win-win: your baby thrives, and you get to reclaim a bit of sleep (nap time = happy hour for new moms, after all!). Trust me, even two back-to-back hours feels like winning the lottery.
Sharing baby duties: because superheroes come in pairs (and Mom’s cape needs dry-cleaning)!
Body wisdom alert: Studies show that mothers who get even one uninterrupted 3-hour stretch of sleep have better mood stability and lower cortisol levels the next day.
Midnight survival tip: Pump milk right before bedtime so your partner can handle the first night feed — this gives your body a longer window of restorative sleep early in the night. Those three hours can feel like a mini spa retreat (minus the candles). |
An article in the Times of India, dated May 31, 2024, states that newborns have shorter sleep cycles and often can’t tell day from night—so those 3 a.m. wake-ups are completely normal. Understanding
and syncing with your baby’s natural circadian rhythm can make a big difference. Try to nap when they nap, and consider white noise or gentle lullabies to help both of you drift back to sleep. Even small habits, such as getting sunlight during the day, mindful breathing, or Yoga Nidra sessions, can reset your body clock, boost your mood, and help you catch those precious moments of rest.
According to Dr. Archana Kankal, Director- Obstetrics & Gynaecology, Sahyadri Hospitals, Pune, "Creating a dim and adjustable lighting environment for breastfeeding is crucial for new mothers, as it makes it easier to transition back to sleep after nighttime feedings. Design your sleep space to facilitate easy breastfeeding. This might include using a co-sleeper bassinet attached to your bed, ensuring you have dim, adjustable lighting, and keeping a comfortable chair or support pillows nearby. By minimizing disruptions and keeping the environment calm and soothing, you can make nighttime feedings smoother and less waking. This gentle approach helps both you and your baby settle back to sleep more easily, promoting better rest for everyone."
Science-backed scoop: Babies start developing their internal body clock (circadian rhythm) around 6–8 weeks — daylight is their best tutor to teach them the difference between day and night.
Parenting pro move: During the day, keep lights bright and sounds natural; at night, dim lights and use soft voices. This simple trick teaches your baby’s brain when to be alert and when to rest. |
I would also like to share a few rituals that have helped me sleep better:
And moms, here’s a reminder: asking for help is not a weakness. Sharing baby duties—feeding, helping the baby burp, or diaper changes—means you get to refresh, and a well-rested mom is the best kind of mom. Teamwork makes the dream work—especially when the dream is actually sleeping, right?
Baby-and-you trivia time: Gentle massages before bedtime increase serotonin levels in babies, helping them fall asleep faster and stay asleep longer.
Tried-and-tested mama trick: Create a bedtime ritual — massage, bath feed, lullaby, and lights out. Repeating the same sequence each night tells your baby’s brain, “It’s sleep o’clock!” |
While these tips can help you get some sleep, nothing can magically turn those nights into eight-hour stretches. However, the right feeding bra can give you one precious gift—comfort. And when you’re a new mom, comfort is not a luxury; it is survival.
Think of your maternity bra as the quiet sidekick that makes the juggling act of midnight motherhood a little less… circus-y.
Here’s a cool mom-brain nugget: Soft, breathable fabrics like cotton or modal reduce nipple friction and wick moisture — lowering the risk of bacterial or yeast infections.
Wellness win: Change your nursing pads often and choose bras that stay dry — they keep your skin healthy, happy, and irritation-free. |
Picture this- At 2:47 am, your baby is crying, you are half-asleep, and you somehow manage to feed without turning on the lights, because your feeding bra made it simple. That’s the ease The Mom Store nursing bras give me during my night feeds! I am writing this blog to help you, new moms, discover the comfort your nights truly deserve!
Lactation fact: Breast tissue can increase by up to 25% during lactation! That’s your body’s way of prepping for milk magic.
The sleepy mom’s secret weapon: A flexible, stretchable nursing bra. Avoid tight elastic bands or underwires while nursing — they can press on milk ducts and cause blockages (ouch!). |
I have tried bras from so many brands, but honestly, The Mom Store maternity bras are my saviours through every unpredictable night. They are not just bras- they are my best friends!
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When sleep is a rare commodity, comfort makes all the difference. So why not invest in the one thing that supports you—literally and emotionally?
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