Parenting Mistakes To Look Out For
We all parents want our child to be a perfect child, he/she be a well behaved child, always listen to us, always understand our point of views.
Being human beings we already have expectations from other people around our circle but after becoming parents we start doing the same thing with our children.
Now days, especially in this Pandemic, kids are at home all the time even they are not able to go out, no school, no meeting with their friends etc. so this is very common if they are going to be stubborn, showing some tantrums, becoming cranky, it is all ok. Just try to find out some solution instead of using negative statements for them.
Behind every action of a child we parents play a very important role, as we need to teach them some small but important things since they are so young. Like if I take a personal example of my child he never use wall for painting as when he was only 2.5 years old and one day he was try to write with a colour on wall, that time we said him NO this is not good thing, see you are going to dirty your wall and he understand this after saying the same thing 2-3 times more in future and when he realized that this is not a good thing or mumma not liking it he understood and never repeat this thing again, here I am not saying to become a rude or strict parent for them but at least try once politely if you want kids not waste the things, they actually understand and take it in a positive way.
We can set an example for other children at home. As they learnt to listen NO in this way, and if they were aware that my demands were going to be fulfilled when not they themselves never became a stubborn child and never showed tantrums also.
I want to share some tips on what we are doing with our kids and how to correct it in a positive manner. Just watch out for your negative words and change it in a positive way, mostly we all use negative words for our children.
- My child is stubborn –
This is the most common complaint or can say main problem which all of the Parents start discussing nowadays. See If you feel that your child is a stubborn child then no need to repeat this in front of them or to any other family members.
Instead start saying that he/she has a strong opinion.
- My Child is very Naughty –
All children are not so active and especially now days , they are always sit in front of Television, mobile phone or tab etc. so if you feels your child is so much in action all the time then do not take it in negative way and even if someone said this that “he/she is so naughty” do not say yes,
Instead He / She is a super active child.
- He/she is a moody child -
Children are so choosy nowadays, we all will understand that they enjoy the activities which they want to do as per their interest, but we started saying that he is so moody, does not want to do anything etc.
Here is a blog which tells about how and when to make your kids independent.
Instead say they do work in which they are actually interested.
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