Love Your Babies

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By having look on such topic sometimes we wonder, what does this mean or else is there any need to say that "love your babies"…Oh please! There is no need to say as it is obvious that they are babies and they are and will be loved by everyone.

But here, I wish to highlight that though babies are small and are loved by everyone still some phases comes in our life where we sometimes think, “hush!" When our babies will grow up, when they will start eating by themselves or when they will start understanding things so that, the home cannot be mess anymore with lots of things and toys here and there.

Sometimes we get so fed up, that we do lose ourselves and our patience still as a mommy or rather whenever we see our baby face the things automatically gets sorted, doesn’t it?  Yes, it does… so why we pray that when they will be grown up?  

These are only 2-3 years where babies are dependent on us however as soon as they start growing they won’t require us and they would be doing everything by themselves and than we do realize that our kids are not giving time to us anymore and they don’t require us anymore as they are grown up.

So as a parent, I wish to tell everyone that start loving your babies as after few years they won’t be tiny tots any more. There won’t be tiny hands and tiny legs to play. They are too small to understand anything; it’s only we who can make them understand and comfortable.

Though they always are behind us for small things; however as a parents or I can say it is our responsibility to take care of them as no one else can take good care as we do irrespective of anyone.

They will make mess everywhere …they won’t play with their available toys and activities but yes, they will do come and help us by removing all utensils which are very well kept than they will remove all clothes from cupboard thank they will laugh with a naughty smile on their face. Don’t they?

We have to make them feed by doing lots of drama, acting than by mimicking any of animals so to have nutritious food as they always refuse to have food. We have to make them understand with respect to health benefits of food which are best for them. We have to run behind them so there tummy must be full on timely basis and although these all happens only if a mom or dad takes care rather it remains as it is.

If anything happens to them we do start crying as they suffer and many negative thoughts come to our mind.; not only this but we do feel exhausted and drained that when everything will be OK. Still as a parents we don’t lean down but we do stand up with high expectations from ourselves and make us understand the necessity. We have to look after them when they are unwell, we have to make them have medicine on timely basis as babies always refuse to have medicine on time and than their tantrums. However we do achieve this as well by giving medicine in a proper manner with lots of efforts.

Some days, babies are hard to manage as due to many reasons they cry and we fail to understand for example: colic, teething pain, passing motions or most difficult reason can be their sleeping pattern. So we have to go through these days to make our babies comfortable.

We have to manage with their changing behavior as they start growing they do go to our household members and that time we feel alone and we keep on thinking that when our baby will turn to us.

With this, I would like to end my blog and wish to convey that, do love your babies, as there won’t be same days and they will soon grownups.

Kindly let me know your views and suggestions on same.